self-obsorbed
[mood: Insomniac]
[craving: a peace of mind]
There are some people in our lives who think that life only revolves around them.. they are so self-absorbed.. they think everything must have something to do with them.. They project their self-centerness in their whole life, ignoring others completely and only focusing on themselves..
If you’re happy, then that must be coz they are around you, after all, what other thing could possibly bring joy to your heart except their existeness?! Somebody talked about you? Oh ofcourse they did, its coz you happen to be their friend..why would anyone bring you up if you didnt happen to know them?! Having a headache? Wait a minute, nevermind your head.. they suddenly had a head stroke & need medication immediately! Why are you expecting a thankyou? That was a duty you had to do for them, & so you shouldn’t be expected to be appreciated..
Ofcourse because these people are so self-focused, they don’t realize they live in denial.. They cannot understand that people eventually abandon them for their repelling nature, and so they move on to others, to satisfy their attention-thirst..
The only solution I can think of? Simply ignore.. you don’t need the extra headache.. =)
A very interesting article: Career killers: behaviour to change.. worth a read, & kill those bad behaviours!
[Final whisper: Moving on..]
sub7aan allah in every circle of pple you find a self-centered person.. & as you said give them akbar 6aaaaaaf lol
interesting update… thnx for the article… best part i liked in this entry: 1. the word ignore
and ofoucrse 2. the final whisper: Moving on….
thank you
I had just past a situation with a self-centered person….it hectic!!!!! so ignoring is the best
!!not worth the headache….
gr8 topic;)
OMG!!! That is so true! I can so relate to what u said because I happen to know someone like that! thing is I never know what to do about it =S
I dont have the heart to dump her, but she makes my life a living hell! Allah y3een!
Salam Kitten,
especially the part “They cannot understand that people eventually abandon them for their repelling nature, and so they move on to others, to satisfy their attention-thirst..”
I know someone whos like that! lol so true what you mentioned its like ur describing them to me
the best solution is IGNORE!
6af is life !
am reading it, and am saying OMG. shes reading my mind. its just the same as what am feeling these days!!!
as much as u love ppl..as much as teh can hurt u!!!
Hey there! How is it going kitten?!
Intresting update, I dont really have much to say about it but I dislike people that are self-centered
u touched a very true aspect in life which i think every person had passed thru.. its really sad but true… ignoring is the only solution
Very interesting up-date …
very well said ….
someone has evolved into another level =)
hi kitten!
Exactly !! ignore! IGNORE & IGNORE!
El7mdelaah I don’t have such ppl around… or errrrmmmm,, I think I do… I know at least one like that!! just the same way you described…..bss keeping a distance is the best solution and that’s what am doing.
Allaah yab3dhm 3anch o 3ana inshallaaa…
Btw, very interesting article, I love it… thanks for sharing kitkit
Thank you for sharing those thoughts with us .. this is my first visit to your blog. I simply love what you are doing here ..
mory
OMG! This is happening to me For the last two weekS! im Forced to Work with this annoying perSon who is So self absorbed and..verry aggitating! I usually tend to ignore people like that ..but This person made me Blow up! and she ended up in teaRS :S SO NOW WHAT! i have no idea how to deal with iT! :S Dont those people notice it?!